I have been a very naughty blogger.
I have an excuse: I
am currently packing up our whole lives and all my stock for a move to another
state. So yeah, it’s been crazy here.
As promised, I am discussing the wearing of damaged vintage
here.
And YES, you can.
First: have you ever gotten a stain on the clothing you were
wearing in a situation, (like work) where you are unable to
go home and change the offending blouse, pants, skirt, jacket, sweater? For the whole day you walk around feeling
like there’s a big spotlight on that stain and everyone sees it, right?
Self-conscious much?
How about “stain conscious”?
Well many can feel that way, wearing a vintage jacket with a
moth hole or fading.
I’m telling you to forget about it.
Example in mind:
50's. I call it my “Lauren Bacall jacket”.
It is SO divine.
It is an obvious vintage plaid.
It is lined in navy crepe.
It has front pockets on the front pockets!
It has moth holes.
Do I care?
What do you think?
I wear it all the time (in the right weather, of course) and
really, all people see when I’m coming is a fabulous vintage jacket that is
unlike anything that’s around nowadays.
Unless you’re standing behind me at the bank (who does THAT anymore?)
you just don’t notice. I completely forget about
the little bit of damage when I wear it...
…which helps a lot.
It’s really about presence.
In recent-day vernacular, I say “WORK IT!” If you have a fabulous vintage item with some
slight damage, it certainly can be worn, as long as you ACT like it’s perfect.
Convince yourself first, then you can convince everyone else.
A lot of this goes best for young people with eclectic
styles, who can get away with a lot.
But if I were younger:
I would wear this damaged cocktail dress as a casual dress
with a motorcycle jacket, big scarf and clunky boots:
https://www.etsy.com/listing/177297415/60s-vintage-yellow-beaded-cocktail?ref=shop_home_active_23&ga_search_query=cocktail
I would wear this coat with a few moth holes just the way I styled it, grunged up,
like the coolest bag lady ever.
https://www.etsy.com/listing/174763599/vintage-1950s-winter-coat-with-mink?ref=shop_home_active_1&ga_search_query=grunge
https://www.etsy.com/listing/174763599/vintage-1950s-winter-coat-with-mink?ref=shop_home_active_1&ga_search_query=grunge
I would wear this faded dress (if it fit me) with much the same
treatment as the cocktail dress above.
Maybe add a heavy cardigan and sweater tights and lots of knit scarves in
the fall and winter but with a military jacket and lighter fringed scarves in
warmer weather. (Oh yes, and those great clunky boots too)
https://www.etsy.com/listing/241457184/vintage-emo-casual-dress-alternative?ref=shop_home_active_4&ga_search_query=grunge
I would wear this fabulous but faded purple cocktail dress with faded
purple gloves, faded purple fabric heels and a fringed Gypsy shawl.
https://www.etsy.com/listing/183107254/vintage-purple-cocktail-dress-60s-1960s?ref=shop_home_active_5&ga_search_query=purple
Guys who have a cool sense of casual would wear this rare 40s
vintage Masland safari or hunting jacket with turtleneck and scarf and think
nothing about the damage on the leather:
Last but not least, this jacket from the 40s is to-die-for vintage! It’s a gabardine with HUGE
shoulder pads, nipped waist and embroidery on the shoulders.
It’s a mess.
Of COURSE I wear it. It has fray holes in the sleeves (I roll them up), it had some metal beading
in the embroidered area and they rusted and faded onto the fabric. I don’t care.
I love this and wear it casually.
OK, so maybe this is not for everyone. This is all about wearing the clothes and not allowing them to wear YOU! There are too many amazing pieces of damaged
vintage out there and selling for “as is” prices.
Go get one and then WORK it.